Scott found out last night that his Grandfather had died.

What can you do or say in those kind of situations?

I've lost four of my grandparents so you'd think that I'd be some kind of expert in these situations. But no, all I can do is hold him and say I'm sorry.

"I'm sorry"

How pathetic and meaningless do those words sound?

I seriously have not seen him cry in months, maybe even a year, it was weird. He left for his parents house five minutes after he got the call, I didn't mind, I knew that he wanted to be there for them as much as he needed them to be there for him.

He ended up staying the night and came home this morning to get his work clothes. He's still quite upset and I have no idea what I'm meant to do.

I'll say one thing though, it was lonely in my bed without him last night.

But anyway, this morning I was asked the most random and insane question, ever. I didn't think that I would even bother answering it, but I did...and it made for interesting conversation.

I think I'm still in shock about it though.

Crazy.

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